Tennessee United States
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October 15, 2004
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LOL @ true,
I don't so much mind when people disagree with me about something I said, but when it's about something I didn't ...
time treat thats why i blocked the person you are talking about.someone that looks to keep something stirred up all the time or looks for confrontations.....block em it sure comes in handy!!
Charlotte NC United States
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June 18, 2005
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tenaj, I made no criticism about anyone, but if someone makes a move against me, I will respond.
I made a playful reference to an entry of pac's. You chose to bark up the wrong tree as if it were a remark I had made specifically "about" someone. Now, rather than admit your error, you pretend that you were talking about something else altogether. If you want to bring an argument against me, you will need the facts on your side. That is something also taught by many "mothers".
If you can find any post prior to this thread where I have "criticized" you in ANY way, post the link.
Oh you don't know? You don't think that remark was not specifically made "about" someone? Maybe you don't. I thought it was a direct aim at another poster. It happened just recently and there were hurt feelings when one poster blogged that the other member was doing the "that person's name dance" and don't use their system or you will lose.
She used her name about 4 to 5 times. And the poster that was hurt posted the blog in a thread for all to see only after I had I tried to dog out the blogger as much as I could. It pissed me off. Hoping that she would at least apologize or something. It's just a system for heaven's sake. Why is it necessary to hurt people to prove a system?
An apology for that blog entry wasl never made and the other member is still hurt. It was like you were pouring salt in the wounds. But if you didn't know. My bad. My mother didn't teach me to admit errors, I grew up. Even if you did something unintentionally and someone was hurt you are still suppose to say I'm sorry and say something like I didn't realize that would hurt you.
I have no beef against you and you've never done anything wrong to me. Just your reference to something that caused hurt feeling. That's what I meant when I said "stirring in do do"
I can forget we even had conversation today and move on but I'll never forget that poster who thinks it's not wrong what she said in that blog. I've posted some mean stuff in retaliation but I've never denied that it was wrong and I'll never degraded another poster as an example of how good my system was.
I know a lot of people might think that I am a mean person and even a troublemaker. Guess what? I dislike troublemakers and I love peace. I am far from being mean. I just hate evil, sneaky, conniving people and don't tolerate fools easily. And it's always kept me in trouble.LOL
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November 23, 2005
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I said it in another post when this argument was going on that If I were that person that the name appeared in the blog, that I would be hurt too. Lets face it, as human beings anyone one would be hurt whether or not they would admit that hurt or not is a different story.
Personally, I am used to personal attacks because of my profession, I get it all the time, and I deal with it professionally, I get the persons web site removed! Oh yes, it can be done, and I have done it already because by law you cannot defame a persons name or use copyrighted material without permission and I do have copyrighted material so it is my right to have it removed! You cannot tell untruths about a person in public and the Internet is Public and no exception. Speaking of which there was just a case on Judge Mathis about this and he right out and said you cannot say something about a person in public to try and defame their good name especially if you have no proof that the comment is of truth. And yes there is freedom of speech but with limitations.
Example of this is: I lived next to a rental home that was put on the market to be sold. This rental property basement was constantly filled with water when it rained and also was ridden with moulds. Even though I knew this, I was told by the sellers lawyer that I was not allowed to talk potential buyers that would happen to be looking at the home, and happen to see me and ask if I knew anything about the home, about any problems!! So much for free speech hey. If I said anything I could of got sued by the sellers even though It was truthful of that home!
Lets face it my friends its just not respectful either and it Does Hurt Feelings. Hmmmm, maybe a case for Moral Court to Decide!
New Jersey United States
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May 31, 2000
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By The Way, Where Is Rip Snorter? Have not seen him post either for a long time!
I've traded some PM's with Rip.
He's been playing lots of blackjack and working on his lottery system.
DD
I also miss Jack's posts big-time!!
Jack, if you're reading this, please take some time out from your blackjack games and visit us every once in a while. The Blogs aren't the same without you!
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March 30, 2005
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If someone made a remark about me or my system in their blog, I'd probably never know about it. I also don't read every thread/topic. I think with this many people, someone will always be offended by something. Being mean to "this" person in defense of "that" person just makes you collect enemies. A lot more people read than comment. And they read you on the attack, not the other two people.
I don't randomly launch attacks on people, but I'm not going to go around trying to soothe everyones feelings, either. And, it should be clear that I won't be run over, myself. If anyone had an issue with my comment, I think they would (should) have come forth themselves. Some folks are a little too "salt" sensitive.
In neo-conned Amerika, bank robs you. Alcohol, Tobacco, and Firearms should be the name of a convenience store, not a govnoment agency.