What a sad story. It's too bad he didn't get some kind of help first but it's clear he wasn't in his right mind. Really sad.
This is an example of how such a dramatic change in one's lifestyle does not cure the winner's underlying insecurities. People believe they are suddenly invulnerable and flushed with power and notoriety after they receive their winnings. What these folks misunderstand about this phenomenon is that they are still themselves, with all of their personal weaknesses, foibles, 'baggage' and other characteristics intact, both positive and negative. This man was in all probability mobbed by people he knew, and prevailed upon to give up his money. Personal vices such as drinking, gambling, womanizing and drug abuse are accentuated by the fact that all are affordable, and in virtually limitless supply. A person who wins the lottery is vulnerable to all types of scams, and their eventual paranoia develops which precludes them from functioning in society as a normal human being. Marriage proposals, lawsuits, financial fraud, ex-wives, girlfriends, associates, charities, fair weather friends, family members and even an occasional extortion appear with lightning swiftness, overwhelming the hapless neophyte with legal challenges and difficult decisions regarding their finances. I think it behooves those who don't know How to be rich to research the subject of sudden wealth, and learn from those who've experienced such life-changing events.
Quote: Originally posted by Daveyl on Oct 30, 2010
This is an example of how such a dramatic change in one's lifestyle does not cure the winner's underlying insecurities. People believe they are suddenly invulnerable and flushed with power and notoriety after they receive their winnings. What these folks misunderstand about this phenomenon is that they are still themselves, with all of their personal weaknesses, foibles, 'baggage' and other characteristics intact, both positive and negative. This man was in all probability mobbed by people he knew, and prevailed upon to give up his money. Personal vices such as drinking, gambling, womanizing and drug abuse are accentuated by the fact that all are affordable, and in virtually limitless supply. A person who wins the lottery is vulnerable to all types of scams, and their eventual paranoia develops which precludes them from functioning in society as a normal human being. Marriage proposals, lawsuits, financial fraud, ex-wives, girlfriends, associates, charities, fair weather friends, family members and even an occasional extortion appear with lightning swiftness, overwhelming the hapless neophyte with legal challenges and difficult decisions regarding their finances. I think it behooves those who don't know How to be rich to research the subject of sudden wealth, and learn from those who've experienced such life-changing events.
Well said.
Are you a counselor? May I ask. Comment such as this should be posted more often. Awesome writing!
It would be interesting to know what was left of the money and if Joshua Jones stood to gain any by Lang's demise.
I wonder if they did a Toxicology test.
Quote: Originally posted by Daveyl on Oct 30, 2010
This is an example of how such a dramatic change in one's lifestyle does not cure the winner's underlying insecurities. People believe they are suddenly invulnerable and flushed with power and notoriety after they receive their winnings. What these folks misunderstand about this phenomenon is that they are still themselves, with all of their personal weaknesses, foibles, 'baggage' and other characteristics intact, both positive and negative. This man was in all probability mobbed by people he knew, and prevailed upon to give up his money. Personal vices such as drinking, gambling, womanizing and drug abuse are accentuated by the fact that all are affordable, and in virtually limitless supply. A person who wins the lottery is vulnerable to all types of scams, and their eventual paranoia develops which precludes them from functioning in society as a normal human being. Marriage proposals, lawsuits, financial fraud, ex-wives, girlfriends, associates, charities, fair weather friends, family members and even an occasional extortion appear with lightning swiftness, overwhelming the hapless neophyte with legal challenges and difficult decisions regarding their finances. I think it behooves those who don't know How to be rich to research the subject of sudden wealth, and learn from those who've experienced such life-changing events.
Blah, blah, blah.
Let's all group hug now.
Typical, touchy-feely, west-coast-nut-job nonsense.
Quote: Originally posted by rdgrnr on Oct 30, 2010
Blah, blah, blah.
Let's all group hug now.
Typical, touchy-feely, west-coast-nut-job nonsense.
For a moment I thought that you said "Let's all group hung now", It scared me some.
Quote: Originally posted by larry3100 on Oct 30, 2010
This is a case for Sherlock Holmes.
Or for Adrian Monk.
Quote: Originally posted by LANTERN on Oct 30, 2010
For a moment I thought that you said "Let's all group hung now", It scared me some.
No LANTERN, I was just being "sensitive" for the gentleperson from California. (no animals or trees were harmed in the writing of this post) (no transfat or salt was consumed either)
Quote: Originally posted by rdgrnr on Oct 30, 2010
No LANTERN, I was just being "sensitive" for the gentleperson from California. (no animals or trees were harmed in the writing of this post) (no transfat or salt was consumed either)
I know what you mean!
rdgrnr, you should read the stories of people who attained quick wealth, then committed suicide, or became poor again due to their inability to properly invest and save their fortunes. The singer for Nirvana is a good example. He had money, fame, good looks, a beautiful wife, a mansion and a brand new baby. Still, he ended a very promising life. A lottery winner in Texas took his own life, after he found his friends and family were soaking him dry. A woman in Pennsylvania won TWO Lotto jackpots totaling over $5,000,000.00, but she now lives on Social Security in a small trailer, and is deeply in debt. This article is a wake-up call for potential winners to examine the factors that caused these people to go broke or kill themselves, and learn to avoid the pitfalls of sudden wealth.
Quote: Originally posted by Daveyl on Oct 30, 2010
rdgrnr, you should read the stories of people who attained quick wealth, then committed suicide, or became poor again due to their inability to properly invest and save their fortunes. The singer for Nirvana is a good example. He had money, fame, good looks, a beautiful wife, a mansion and a brand new baby. Still, he ended a very promising life. A lottery winner in Texas took his own life, after he found his friends and family were soaking him dry. A woman in Pennsylvania won TWO Lotto jackpots totaling over $5,000,000.00, but she now lives on Social Security in a small trailer, and is deeply in debt. This article is a wake-up call for potential winners to examine the factors that caused these people to go broke or kill themselves, and learn to avoid the pitfalls of sudden wealth.
You've been preaching about the evils of the lottery since you got here so I don't know if you're a gambling man or not but if so I would bet you dollars to donuts that a lot more people commit suicide over the pressures of too little money than the dreaded "pitfalls of sudden wealth."
I would even go so far as to say that the "pitfalls of sudden wealth" may have even possibly prevented a number of suicides.
Quote: Originally posted by rdgrnr on Oct 30, 2010
Blah, blah, blah.
Let's all group hug now.
Typical, touchy-feely, west-coast-nut-job nonsense.
Well, aren't you just a little ray of sunshine.
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